A New Life Journey Begins

Mtn DewToday I start a new journey.  A journey into a healthier me.  It’s something that I’ve thought about for a long time and debated the best way to implement.  Then the other day the final motivation came about.

Today, April 26 2012 I am starting something I’ve never really done before, and that is to diet.  One of the main reasons for this is that six months from today, my wife and I will be taking our first missions trip.  We will be traveling with a team from our church to South Africa.  Obviously, over the next few months you will hear a lot more about the trip, and I am actually going to set up a full blow website for the journey.

With this trip, one of the things I realized is that I am heading to an area of the world where air conditioning is not very accesible.  So, less of me to take on the journey should help to make the trip more pleasant.  In addition, I want to be a healthier Dad to my children and set a better example for them to follow in life.

With all that being said, today started the diet. My goal is to lose 50lbs by October 26, 2012. Now, I am not going to set an unrealistic action plan in place for me or the family and say we are going to eat less than 1,500 calories a day, work out for 2 hours each day & cut out every unhealthy piece of food.  For someone like me that has never really dieted, that would not be a very realistic type of goal. Instead, I’ve set forth what I feel is an attainable action plan for the near future that hopefully both myself & the family can abide to.  Who knows, once we get moving forward we may add more things into the plan.

But as for now, here is the action plan to start us on the right track with these 5 things:

1.  Bye Bye Dew-  As many who know me, one of the things that I love and would drink on an almost daily basis was Mtn Dew.  Some days there would be multiple servings consumed.  Those days are going to change from regular occurrences to very few & very far between.  Instead I am replacing that and increasing my consumption of water.  I know that there are times I would snack on something when in reality, I was just thirsty and needing some water.  From the best calculations, I need to consume about ten 16 ounce glasses of water a day right now.  Halfway through my first day of accomplishing this and I am right on track.  One moment, time to drink some more.

2.  Change The Breakfast Menu.  The normal menu at our house for a breakfast includes some sort of combination of bacon, sausage, pancakes, or eggs.  One of those four makes it into almost breakfast at our home almost every day.  Instead of having these daily, they will become more of a special occasion meal and be replaced by healthy cereals, oatmeals, and ever a fruity protein shake like the one I had this morning.

The Best Steaks in Myrtle Beach3.  Grill It Baby!-  A lot of the things that we make in our house over the past few months has been either pan fried or sauteed in a pan with some sort of oil or butter.  I’ve had a wonderful grill that my wife bought me several years ago that simply sits out back of the house on the patio.  I used to grill on a regular basis, but over the past few months have become rather lax and just using oil and a pan.  Instead from now on, the goal is flip it to where most our meals are cooked over the flame and not in oil.

4. Portion It-  Instead of just scooping onto the plate whatever I feel like, we are going to pay much closer attention to more realistic portion sizes.  In the beginning I see this being pretty difficult, but I think if I stick to it, my apetite will adjust rather quickly.  Instead of just eating till full, we will create smaller portions and eat slower to allow the body to digest things.  If I’m still hungry, the goto will be a glass of water, not a second helping.

5.  Healthier Snacks-  Around our house, when we want a snack, it has normally been filled by either potato chips, a piece of candy, or something else that isn’t as healthy.  Instead, the fried & sugared snacks will be phasing those out and being replaced by things healthier.

6.  Become More Active-  As someone who works in an office all day sitting behind a computer for anywhere from 10-17 hours in a day, this is something that I know I must do more of.  I need to take breaks throughout the day to get up and move around.  One thing I’ve already done to help a little is re-organize my office.  I used to have little to no space to move in my office. Now after rearranging things, I have a rather large space to use.

So, now when I am on business calls which sometimes take up over half of my day, instead of just sitting back in my chair relaxing, I’ll be taking that time and walking around the office, even if it is just in a small circle.  Who knows, I might wear the carpet out, but at least I will be active.  In addition, I hope to spend more time doing active things with the children and around the house.  We have a good sized back yard and I plan to take much more advantage of it.  I know being more active and exercising is key to better health.

So, that’s the game plan.  It won’t be easy and I know there will still be some consumption of the things that aren’t always the healthiest for our body.  I’m as human as the next.  The big key to this being successful will be to have those things in moderation, and not as the norm.   I am sure over the next few months you will see more about this both on here, possibly my main business blog, and possibly even on the missions site once it is completed.

Special thanks to my friend Brian Copeland that really motivated me a few weeks back to finally make a change.  I saw him recently at a conference after almost a year’s time and barely recognized him.  Brian made the decision to make his health a priority and seeing the results in his life made a huge impact on me and has motivated me to do the same so that I can spend many many more years with my wife and family.

photo by: inazakira

This Doll Eats, Pees, & Poops- A My Baby Alive Blonde Doll

Buy My Baby Alive on AmazonThis year for Christmas my daughter was given one of these My Baby Alive Blonde dolls as a present.  This thing eats, drinks, pees & poops into a diaper.  At first I didn’t know why anyone would like one of these dolls, but when we opened it up, she fell in love with it instantly.

She constantly wants to feed it and change the My Baby Alive’s diaper.  To me, I find this a little bit disturbing that the baby does all these bodily functions, but apparently, this was one of the most popular gifts of the 2012 holidays.

So does My Baby Alive really eat, drink, pee & poop?  Well, instead of answering in words, I figured I’d let you see my daughter interacting with her My Baby Alive Blonde doll and how it works for yourself.  If you want to see what types of diapers it makes, unfortunately you won’t see that part, my wife didn’t record that.

So, what do you think of the My Baby Alive Blonde?  Do you think it is neat, or does it disturb you?  Lastly if you own one, which do also have the My Baby Alive Blonde or a different one?

Angry Birds Theme Takes New Flight

Many of my friends know I have this small large love for playing games on my iPad.  I’ve been known to spend hours playing them.  One game though, that has been a major time suck for me is Angry Birds.

It doesn’t matter whether it is Angry Birds Original, Angry Birds Seasons, or Angry Birds Rio, I love it and own them.  I’ve beaten all the levels currently available and check back to the app store regularly for possible updates that will release new levels.

If you have a love for Angry Birds like I do, then you will find a deep appreciation in this video:

My College Makes National News!

Well, it is rare that you see or hear something of my college Coastal Carolina University being in the main news, but it appears our football coach, Coach Bennett was able to achieve this.  Here’s his big video:

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Hey, at least we made the news.

Tracking Hurricane Irene-LIVE Video

I’ve had a lot of friends checking in on me and asking how we are faring with Hurricane Irene.  I am actually down in Florida right now for a convention as a social media speaker and Katherine is home manning the house on her own.  So, I was able to find this live cam courtesy of the local weather station.  You can watch the storm below:

 


 

Learning to Roller Skate

So, for her third birthday my daughter got a new pair of roller skates.  She has never owned any, so this is a new experience for her.  At first I was a little hesitant to allow her to use these as I didn’t want her to fall & hurt herself.  But, as she started using them & even fell once or twice, she had entirely too much fun to keep them from her.

Here’s a quick video of her testing them out.  As you can see, she found herself having more fun actually having her mommy push her around on them than learning to do it.  I am sure that in time this will change as well.

Before we know it, we will go from “Daddy please push me” to “NO Daddy!  I can do it myself!” She loves to be independent & learn new things.  Plus she is completely adorable.  One thing she has learned already, is that there is no using roller skates without proper protection.  So before they get put on, the elbow pads, knee pads, & helmet get placed on securely.

Hope you enjoy!

Children Will Make You Smile

I had to have a root canal not too long ago.  I wasn’t too happy about this or the expenses that were involved in having one done.  Since I own my own business, you don’t get the option of an group insurance unless you pay for the entire group.

Luckily for me, I had little man to make me smile & laugh that evening.  This video was shot about an hour after my root canal was done.  While I still was pretty numb from the Novocaine, and the swelling was still pretty high, he still managed to make me smile with his cute noises and happy face.

The Start of a New Transition

My son who is now almost 9 months old is a lot of fun.  Over the past few weeks he has been rolling around on the floor and miraculously ends up in another place.  He wasn’t really crawling, but more flipping & rolling to get to things.  However yesterday, he started to really transition from that into a crawl.  He hasn’t quite mastered the crawl yet, but my guess is that in another week or two we will be wishing he would just stay put in one place for longer than five seconds.

A 2 Year Old’s Perspective on Baseball

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We recently went to a baseball game to see the Philadelphia Phillies play the Atlanta Braves.  After the game was over we were stuck in traffic in the parking lot, so I decided to interview Isabelle and get her thoughts on the baseball game.  Take a look:

And Go Phillies!

Real Estate Zebra Message is Clear- LOVE #savethezebra

Some of you who read here on a regular basis probably know about my friend Daniel Rothamel.  He’s a great guy I met a few years back through my various uses of social media.   He lives in VA while I am down here in SC.  But, by visiting several conferences over last few years I have been able to meet him in person numerous times.  In fact, last August while his family was here visiting Myrtle Beach we were able to get together for lunch.  This was the first time we were able to actually sit down and talk in person with each other without 200 people pulling at us to come for a photo or pick our brains which is the norm at most conferences.

At lunch Daniel brought his wife & daughter affectionately known as @lilzebra and we had a great time.  The picture to the right I actually took at lunch.  During that lunch I was able to get to know Daniel beyond the zebra brand he developed for himself in real estate.  I met the father, husband and fellow brother in Christ.  It became so evident to me that Daniel was not afraid of his faith or allowing others to know what he firmly believed.  We shared many great stories at lunch about real estate, social media, fatherhood, the beach, and our faith.  He shared with me a bottle cap he carries with him reminding him about love.

Well, last week the real estate industry went a buzz with a post about a lawsuit being brought against him for using some things that someone else thinks is their trademarked content.  I’m not getting into the legal aspects of the lawsuit between Daniel & The Lones Group.  If you really want to know, you can read all about it in a post written by Jay Thompson titled The Lones Group V Rothamel. Since the suit came out into the public forums there has been a lot of buzz around it, but Daniel and his family has remained fairly quiet as they probably have been asked to do so by their attorneys.

However last night Daniel shared a video response which I found very fitting to him and his personality.  You can watch it below and then we will get to my point of this post.

 

 

As I watched the video, the first thing that popped into my mind was 1 Corinthians 13:4-13 which is known as the Love chapter of the bible.  Here’s a man that is right now being sued for over $75,000 in damages, has a mother battling cancer and a father with health issues as well, and instead of him making a video saying please help me, please donate, he makes a video about the importance and power of love.

To me, as it says in verse 13,  love can conquer anything out there.

13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

We so many times get wrapped up in our tests, our trials, and problems that we have a hard time loving others around us.  Daniel’s message here is powerful. We need to continually show love to those around us.  As we show that love it can change lives permanently.  Think about this a moment; when was the last time someone became truly mad at you for showing them perfect love? By perfect love, I mean love that had no strings attached, no hidden motives, or alternative plans.  The answer is never.  When you genuinely show love to someone you will see nothing but a positive outcome.

The second point I get out of this video and the whole situation Daniel is facing is the the testimony he will have to share with others.  As my pastor says on many occasions to me when I am facing something difficult, “Your tests become your testimony.” Many times when we face these tests and trials and we don’t understand why.  But down the road someone will cross our path who is dealing with the same type of problem.  Our ability to share with others from our experiences and to encourage them is the only thing they will need to continue forward and overcome their battle.  Sometimes just the slightest word of encouragement can be the difference between giving up or pressing through.

Daniel has learned through the words of encouragement that he will be able to continue on and make it through this difficult time.  The hundreds of people who have offered words of encouragement and financial support have shown him that all he has worked so hard for over the past few years has been worth it.  He is making a difference in people’s lives and it is worth it to continue on working so hard.

So I leave you with these two thoughts:

  1. Show unconditional love to everyone, even when you don’t want to.  It’s the only prescription to truly resolve an issue.
  2. Encourage others.  It may not seem like you are doing much by saying good job, or thank you to someone, but those small words of encouragement and gratitude can be the difference between them giving up or pressing forward toward the prize.